We have a debate in school: Should husband and wife sticks to their marriage vows even if love is gone?

Our teacher told us to prepare for a debate regarding this question. We are assigned in the ';NO'; section and the others are in the ';YES'; section. Please I need your help to have a good explanation. This is the question:


Should husband and wife sticks to their marriage vows even if love is gone?





Please I need some answers that indicates a ';NO'; to help me justify the question. Please answer more. thanks!! i need it now..thank you so much in advance!We have a debate in school: Should husband and wife sticks to their marriage vows even if love is gone?
No. For the simple fact that kids follow thier parent's footsteps and you don't want to teach them that it is acceptable to settle in life. We want to teach our kids that if you don't like your life, change it, don't just wallow in self pity. Loveless marriages can lead to straying and infidelity. Then you're teaching your children even more 'good' habits. Plus you are throwing your children into a game of emotional russian roulette. Resentment and anger can set in against one another and your children will be put in the middle of a war zone. It can destroy them emotionally and leave them unstable in their future relationships and view the world as a volatile place.





Outside of children, no again. You have made vows to each other as far as I'm concerned. If you believe in God, then isn't God forgiving and doesn't he want us to be happy, yet divorce is a sin? Sounds hypocritical to me. These people who are Christian settling in marriage just because they took vows to God, are wasting their life on an invisible essence, hoping this thing that may or may not exist, doesn't judge them. You only get one life and everyone deserves not only to be with someone they love, but to be with the person who loves them.





From a biological/scientific fact, every human being needs love, they need companionship outside of friendships. Without love in a marriage, they lose the intimacy as well. Sex without love dulls, fast. Then you are dealing with the emotions that come from lack of intimacy, anger, depression, aggression, resentment and thus leading again to straying. Then if they stray, they could very easily stray into other marriages, so not only has their marriage fallen, they have destroyed another marriage too.





Good luck


xWe have a debate in school: Should husband and wife sticks to their marriage vows even if love is gone?
For the ';NO'; section... If they have kids, they shouldn't raise their kids in a loveless marriage. Then their kids would not learn what they need to learn in order to keep a great marriage alive. If you don't love someone and its mutual, then its time to part ways and start new lives. Hope that helps a little!
just because you don't feel love doesn't mean it's not there. love isn't an emotion only, it's also work. it's the effort to be patient with each other even though it's rough. so yes. it's a life long contract and no one else or breaking up will change anything.