How can you tell when enough is enough in a marriage?

I'm not sure if I love my husband anymore. I'm very confused, I do not know what to do. And I'm not even seeing any one, I don't even like any other man, I don't even have friends but I'm not sure about what my feelings are towards my husband.How can you tell when enough is enough in a marriage?
Enough is enough when you die - did you not understand that ';until death do you part'; thing in your vow? Fall back in love with your husband, in the same way you fell in love with him in the first place - you can do it if you try.How can you tell when enough is enough in a marriage?
A friend of mine tried this and has been happily married and fulfilled ever since:





Shower, then shave your entire body below your neck and spend Saturday strolling around the house entirely nude. This will encourage your husband (they have a tendency to be seen as uncaring after being married a while) to pay you the attention you feel you deserve.





Don't knock it until you've tried it. Good luck.
First I would start by asking yourself one thing ';Why did you marry him in the first place?





Second I would ask yourself what has changed and does he feel the change as well.





If one person feels the change and the other doesn't then the best thing to do is to sit down and talk about how you feel.





Sometimes that's all it takes to get the feeling of love back is to just know that the other person in your life still loves you and is there for you!!





I wouldn't jump ship until you both discuss what is going on with both of your feeling and how you view each other first!!





If it comes down to abuse then there is another story !!
I agree with Happy 2. I didn't realize it until he said it.. but its so true. People do not respect the sanctity of marriage anymore.. if we can just jump in and out then whats the point if no one takes the vows literally? Not YOU, but your husband did not respect your vows.. now its up to you to respect them by standing by him and making it work... for better or for worse... until death.. otherwise you are no better than him.


otherwise there was never any point to get married in the first place. If you both broke the vows they should have never been taken.





Abuse is ANOTHER story, emotional or physical.
It sounds like you are missing a lot of things about 'living' your life- -- - seems to me you need to broaden your experiences . . .meaning get out and make friends do things go to the movies - --essentially, get a life -- -even if that is taking up a hobby with your husband something you both enjoy doing . . . .maybe you are simply and solidly bored with life not necessarily your husband . .
when he's not at home do you feel happier? imagine yourself alone and if that seems preferable to staying with him, then you will know. weigh up the pros and cons, the reasons to stay together and the reasons not to, then decide. we all go through feelings like this in relationships, sometimes things change and sometimes they get worse.
considering you are thinking about whether you love him or not obviously strongly suggests you don't.





first marriage is practise for the second ;)





getting divorced in this decade is not such a taboo anymore anyway, just go for it and be happy.
If the words enough is enough have gone through your mind about your husband, it's time to get rid of him. Been there, done that, and God, am I happier.
You ask yourself, ';Am I better off with him or without him?';.





You can make a list of plusses and minuses, and weigh the 2 lists.





And can you support yourself (and any kids) without his help?
you know whats right for you and when the time comes to call it quits just go for it,


dont live in misery. lifes too short
Why don't you visit a psychologist?