I mean my hubby and I don't want kids at all and I just want to see if there are any benefits to that.How is marriage with no kids?
It depends on what lifestyle you are interested in. If you two have already settled down and he's basically the guy who stays in his house and only goes out to work, then that will be a problem, especially for the wife.
It woud be boring to have a settled down life, but if you two are travellers and love going out and only staying home (or residence) just to sleep, then it's the perfect life for no-child couples. When done right, that life would be much funner considering that a settled down life with children would cause couples to sacrifice their lives (and in many cases their love also) for their kids.How is marriage with no kids?
i guess there would be plenty. in case you got divorced in the future there wouldn't be no custody problems. in my sociology class there was a book where it said that when the couple in a marriage don't have kids BY CHOICE they tend to have happier marriages because they spend more time to themselves. you guys would have no headaches because of teenage kids and their problems. there are plenty of benefits.
i think its a good thing when people who dont want children dont have them. while i think children are enriching, i would have to say that people who are not sure about having babies shouldnt have them because they wont put as much effort into raising them. sorry it doesnt answer your question but i just want to say i think thats a really smart choice and good luck to you both
i knew a girl who didnt want kids. she drove a mustang in summer and a nice suv in winter. they just basically did their own things with their friends and had money to vacation and buy nice things together. basically it's like dating except you have someone to come home to EVERY night.
How old are you? You might actually change your mind as you get older. i found that marriage was great without kids for the first five years. It is wonderful when you're young and in love and free. Later though, we both wanted more.
You would have more money for yourselves. Trips, Vacations, etc. But having kids is such a wonderful thing. When you bring something so beautiful into the world, it feels good.
well you might not want them now but how about later? what if your 60 and you get a divorce or god forbid your hubby dies? wouldnt you want grandchildren to make you smile with their little jokes or sneaky moves?
Many benefits...go where you want, when you want, for as long as you want. Great if you BOTH don't want kids.
you will have a lot more money and time to travel and explore your own interests!
I say to each his own! carpe diem! enjoy your life together!
best of luck to you both!
um... no kids lol, nuff said
more money..
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