Why does everybody in here say wait until marriage?

Wait until marriege to have sex? Which fantasy land are they living in, does this even happen anymore? All the girls around here are doing at 12, 13, 14 years of age.Why does everybody in here say wait until marriage?
I didn't wait, I don't regret it and I wouldn't recommend it because you have to test drive the car before you buy it.Why does everybody in here say wait until marriage?
Well the way i see it the break down of society in this highly sexialised world is whats causing all this extra marital sex. But I have heard that those who wait are happier for it.





However with 10 to 16 year olds having sex i wonder. But one also has to wonder about the divorce rate thats gone through the roof all around the world as much as the adultary thats going on in the world.





I wonder if humans have lost their morals in this area or whether were doing whats natural.


I would advise to wait till marriage. But if you cant then do it when your ready.
Im disgusted that children of 12, 13 and 14 would be having sex.


Haven't their parents taught them sex education and the consequences!!





I think there is nothing wrong with waiting to have sex with someone you love with all your heart, whether it be with your boyfriend that your in a serious relationship with or someone that you want to wait for marriage!!





I have seen the effects of what has happened to some of my friends who have casual sex with lots of guys, and they come back to me and cry saying how empty they are inside and how they wish they had a boyfriend, not some guy using them then throwing them away like second hand furniture!!





Not to mention the reputations these girls get, and guys that do want a relationship then avoid these girls with the reputations, so its a vicious circle!!





Id rather wait, than get a reputation and get my heart broken. When the time comes for me to have a boyfriend that im serious with, the only person i will be having sex with is them!!
We say it because we have learned from our own mistakes and don't want to see people like you make the same mistake we all did. And yes, it does happen. I have a 22 year old friend who has never had sex and she is waiting until marriage. She's having a hard time finding another guy who hasn't done it. 12, 13, and 14 are way too young! I was 16 and I feel that was also way too young. My advice would be to wait because on the night of your wedding, you may feel guilty if you didn't wait. I ended up apologizing to my husband the night we got married. I really wish I would have saved myself for him.
They are either religious freaks trolling or too young kids telling what their religious freaky parents told them.





In reality,and in free countries, most people have sex before marriage.





Do they not remember when people in Christian nations used to have anal before marriage to avoid popping up the hymen.





Now that's over.





Sex before marriage is necessary, you want to know how it feels to be with that partner before you sentence your life forever,
it is bcoz the freedom u hav legally there in western...but here in india it is not possible..bcoz u people will know everything scientifically and u will see scientifically it is not fault to hav sex since u hav sex education but in india we hav culture which restrict sex before marriage or if u do sex before marriage u hav to marry d same girl its a punishment 4 u and it is justice given to that girl in india....u wil realise this only when u see everythg eternally not externally...science is true but science alone wil not make u complete since we r all human beings with sense and heart.............thk now u hav understood
its not all teh girls of that age, just the dirty ones i dont agree with waiting till marrage, but i do agree with waiting for the legal age as its just sensible, why start at 12? just seems far too young, espically for the ones who get pregnant from it, they cant support a child, hence hte common sense not to haev sex unles you are ready for the possible consequences.
i think waiting till marriage is sexy but waiting until you find the right guy is the sensible thing to do





and do you know who persuades/influences girls to have sex at such young ages? guys. most girls dont even feel good when they have sex so young and under the influence of drink/drugs. guys just use them..
leave religion out of this, it's all about values, I'll be 20 in June and never touched by a guy before, I mean only frindly hugs, that's all. So, I don't think it's a fantasy land, it's OUR EARTH, and it will be perfect if we all did that same thing, don't you agree? Where do you live??
i had sex at 14 and i dont regret it. i was in love. we stayed together for 6 years after that. but if i just did it with a random guy i know i would regret it. the people that reply might get their opinions from personal experience. aging changes your perspective on many things. looking back, i kind of think 14 was too young.
i supposed it depend on a lot of things. age, strength of relationship, how desperate the couple are to have children. Also, Religion can have a big impact on this issue. Roman Catholics are very strict with this sort of thing, or so i hear.
some people are brainwashed into believing that ';saving it'; will make it better...





ignore everyone and go with your needs... you want sex, have it... but make sure you know the consequences of your actions and are protected... and make sure you have a willing partner. ;)
Waiting makes it more meaning full 12 to 16 is to young I was 15 and it sucked at that age your just getting used and becoming a Slut i wasn't but alot of my friends are sluts (and only i can call them that).
That's good question.


because the everybody like to know guys how is she and many thing .please you don't worry and wait for right time .you will get sure success in your way.ahead good luck for you.
Have ya ever thought all the girls there are cheap nasty sinfull stuts?? Just asking. A CLASSY LADY would wait, a modern average, okey-doke hoe wouldn't. You choose..
Well I am waiting until marriage :)
So as to be exceptionaly fantastic in this fantasy land ,... that they are asking you not to.
Just remember your partner will be sleeping with everyone you slept with...
there's a fine line, some people will want to wait til marriage, some wanna grow up before they're ready... i was 19...
Well its their point of view,firstly i can't understand why ppl even ask such questions..
well that is sick...and those girls have serious problems...they were probably molested





PS little girls lie about having sex





PPS I DONT THINK YOU HAVE TO WAIT...but 16 is the youngest that is anywhere near appropriate.





I was 18
maybe they just hope some of these youngins will listen..i think they need to hear horror stories about pregnancy.
sex is for married people... THE END!!!
marriage is a waste of time








by the way i agree i think its wrong that there having sex at such young ages


thumbds down me all u like u knw its wrong if you dont think its wrong then ur wrong








also this is the 21st century why should peopel wait to have sex wen there married that could take years lol what if it neva even happened
that sounds like my fantasy land
Yeah it happens...I waited until I was married and so did most of my female relatives!
yeah and they will all end up either pregnant or with some type of STD before they are 16..MARK MY WORD!!!
i started at 10, and that was back in the 60s.