It's funny how when you talk to women about prenups they say sh颅it like ';How can a marrige work without trust?';. Idiots.
I'm never getting married. I don't want some bit颅ch taking half my stuff.How do you feel about the fact, that marriage is on the way out.?
I think its a sad situation, people get married thinking (before they are even at the altar) I can get divorced if it doesn't work out. That is no way to start a life together. Maybe we should poll Hollywood. Liz Taylor started a great trend how many divorces does she have. They (Celebs) have made a mockery of marriage in my honest opinion. Jump from body to body, home to home its sad very sad to me. Learn to do whats right - take time to get to know someone really know them before such a committment is made think about the children that get hurt by divorce!
Good
F*cking
Riddance
Feminism needs to die.
I don't know in the US, but in the last few years, more and more people are getting married in France. I'm not sure about the US. I don't think marriage is dead. I think, and hope, people will actually start thinking before getting married. Being in love is not enough. You need to know if you can get along on a daily basis, and for a long time.
As someone said above, I also think people are more and more selfish and don't want to compromise. They are so used to getting what they want immediately (consumer syndrome), nowadays.
I'm sure there are other reasons, though, but I think it's one of the main reasons.
I'm not getting married ever? Well thanks for the vote of confidence...
Well I wanted too, though the one I wanted, and wanted forever, is gone... if I found someone else that could fill his shoes enough, then I would not have it in mind that it would be ';for now,'; is would have to be for always (unless a spouse turns psycho and tries to kill you, that would be a deal breaker...or other actual real deal breakers)
I don't think marriage is on it's way out...rather I think people have forgotten how to deal with things in life and how to make compromises. Too many people think of just themselves now and any measure of unhappiness seems to mean it's over. Living life with another human is not capable of being all ups, it has to have it's downs too as is normal with life.
What is the difference between a marriage and a committed relationship? A piece of paper (the state's stamp of approval). It was necessary in the past due to social values and ';securities'; and ';guarantees'; people found in the institution of marriage- half of which are false. You can be committed to someone without a piece of paper and cheat on them every week with the piece of paper...what does marriage do, really? I believe it has deeply rooted religious beliefs/values that people cannot overlook. I would rather call the love of my life my ';boyfriend'; rather than my ';husband';...I have been married once and I know just the title itself brings annoying mental restraints...why do it?
Marriage doesn't guarantee anything other than tax cuts and a possible messy divorce.
1. Sounds fine to me/don't really care.
2. I feel great. I don't plan on getting married ever. I simply don't a title or contract to be with someone.
3. I think there will be more people who are better off than those who will be worse off. Though, I doubt it will ever completely go away, so those who need it can keep it.
Why do you sound so happy to find this out? You seem bitter and sad somehow. I am not presently married but hope to be someday. I don't look at it so negatively.
I'm married and it's the best thing I've ever done. I just don't think that people hold those strong family values anymore as much as people used to. It's sad really.
I think a lot of times--especially in the present--marriage doesn' have as much value as it used to. In the past, it used to mean more so that you would be tied to a person for the rest of your lives. Now, it just seems like a piece of paper because it is so easily broken by divorce. I think it just keeps getting worse and worse because people just don't have as many morals and values that people did in the past. A lot of he times people have one night stands and don't wait until marriage for sex and other things along those lines. It's sad really, especially for people like me who do still have those values and morals.
I personally live and work so hard for my future wife and I am not even married so to have some one to love that much and marry them means a lot to the human soul.
I don't want to get married anyway, so it doesn't matter to me. But I don't think it'll disappear completely. There will always be those who still want to marry.
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