Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Will marriage make you feel you have no other choices anymore?

One of my friend has a very good marriage, I am single and I told her how I wish I can get married. She said once you get married, you will have no other people to choose and stay with one person. Will marriage make you feel this way?Will marriage make you feel you have no other choices anymore?
Um.......when you get married, aren't you only supposed to be with that person forever? Marriage is forever. Don't do it unless you are committed.Will marriage make you feel you have no other choices anymore?
It depends on the person getting married. People who cheat on their partner while married certainly won't feel that way, and many people who don't cheat might not restrict themselves in their thoughts - but those people got married for the wrong reasons.





I'm sure that every married person sometimes dreams or fantasizes of being with someone else at least once throughout a long 30-year marriage. but the point of marriage is that you are committed to this one person because you believe that your love makes you stronger and the two of you are better together than separate.





feelings certainly change over time, but there are ways of staying devoted and loving one partner in a marriage without feeling like you are restricting yourself.





that's just my opinion.
What? One person, yes, you are with only one person for the rest of your life. If you do not want this, then marriage is not for you. Marriage is all about committing your life to one person til death do you part.





Otherwise, marriage is supposed to be happy, maybe not all the time, but I still get butterflies when I kiss my husband and it's been almost 14yrs of marriage.
Marriage is not a prison sentence.lt is more about sharing your life with the person you love.Marriage also brings happiness with your children...if you choose to have them.


Your friend who told you this...is wrong.l am also surprised to read she has a good marriage and feels this way.You find the right person.....and you can still have a life,and freedom.
I don't feel this way. I enjoy with being with just one man. In fact, we've only been with each other and nobody else. If I were single and dating, I can't imagine feeling comfortable trying new things during sex with just anyone. Right now, we both know each other so well and know just what the other person likes. I wouldn't really want it any other way.
One day you just may get married, but it takes time to choose the right mate for yourself. Marriage depends on both you and your partner, and what your values are.





No, you really don't get that choice to be married and still *go shopping* sounds like you really need to wait
I used to think marriage was the greatest thing in the world but I dont now. I am a disallusioned, exhausted housewife and Mom. Factor in not much money, loss of a baby and gaining another baby and families and there is not much left......
By your friends answer, i can tell that she doesn't really love her husband. You only marry someone that you truly love, so if you really love him, there won't even be any other on your mind.
I think when you married you chose your partner to live with him for ever this partner will be every thing in your life you don't need some one else.
if you really want to marry someone then you wouldn't even think about other people becuase you should love them. otherwise yes you will think that
I hope not lol... I like the idea of being with the one person.
If you make the right choice, it won't matter to you.
yes. but why would u need those other people to choose anyway? and if u do u shouldn't get married
not if you have a girl on the side or several.
i dont know but if he is do you want to talk
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