Give him what he wants.How do U know that a marriage is over?
It certainly reads like it's over. For 17 days you haven't communicated with the guy at all. He's given you verbal abuse for a couple of years, yet you say with him, hmmm, very strange. I think you should end the marriage, before he does. Let's face it, it isn't working. You guys should be screwing like horny rabbits - you've only been married a short time the ';fire'; should be still burning. If you'd been married for four or five years - the fire would be out and you both would be Mr %26amp; Mrs. Humdrum. Get out of this marriage and do it before he tells you he wants out, which seems to be coming to a theater near you soon. Find someone new - and stop with the ';I still love him';, BS. No one should have to put up with the verbal abuse you've been getting.
Hi Sad Blue Pooh,
You do not deserve to be verbally abused, and you must respect yourself enough not to put up with it.
It is tough I know when a marriage is over, but if he will not communicate, better for you boh to move on now.
I see many people sticking together for the wrong reasons or a fear of being alone, but it does not bring long term happiness.
You can klearn from this and start again so value yourself and do not tolerate the abuse.
Kind regards,
Jon
I personally think that your husband is going through a rough time. Maybe he might have lost his job, thinking that he might loose his job. Put yourself in his shoes, and think why is he like that? Did I do anything that put him off, Or am I clinging too much on him? How can I come out of this situation or correct this situation.
You yourself know the answer to this situation, think, think before you do something.
Think of your future. If your love for your husband is strong, it will surely weather over all troubles.
Talk with him. Calmly, composed, just sit and talk with him. Tell him about your fears, anxieties.
Don't get angry, dont shout or scream or yell.
talk with him all willbe good.
If there is a will then surely there is a way.
god bless
You both need marriage counseling. If he is willing to try then there is hope if not the 50/50 in your relationship is very unbalanced. Based on the little information I have to go on, you sound depressed about it and I hope that you will be happy soon, with or with out your present husband.
Contact your husband some way and ask him what is wrong with him and why is he avoiding you. Depending on his answer you may find that he does not love or want you anymore. If that is the case then get out of this marriage as quick as you can.***SWEET MILDRED SENT ME HERE TO FIND DESPERATE WIVES FOR THE PLAYPEN***
let him throw his tantrums and cool down before having a good talk over things. your feelings are just as normal and neing 2 yrs into marriage has still lots of things and situation to acustomed to. if things are not too serious...it should not get in the way of a marriage unless its a 3rd party?
most importantly learn to control your emotions for you need it. get a friend to talk over for the love must still be there...somewhere....
i no exactly how u feel in 22 and only bin married 10 months. u need 2 sit down and talk 2 him. if u cant do that write it down (thats how i do it). tell him u dont like the way he talks to u and explain that u feel like crap. if not it will eat and eat at u and soon u will burst. ive bin there and done it. if hes still unwilling 2 change. make the steps 2 leave him c if it changes. if he still is unwilling 2 change u do need 2 leave him and find some1 who will appreciate u and love u 4 u
when you don't feel that you're partner's #1 concern then it's over
verbal abuse is such a horrible thing and disrespect ruins any marriage in the world .. you should DEMAND his respect and live like a normal couple or it's gonna end tragically
HE STILL LOVES U....LOVE IS MORE THAN WORDS ITS LIFE CHANGING.....ITS THE AIR U BREATHE ITS UR HEART BEATING ITS THE UNIVERSE ITSELF......TALK TO HIM PUT EVERYTHING ASIDE IF U LOVE HIM DONT LET HIM GO LOVE CONSISTS OF TRYING N TRYING AND TRYING THERE IS A MOTHER I KNOW TRIED 4 I BELIEVE 29 YRS NOW THATS LOVE FOR THE FIRST 2 YRS THEY HAD NOTHING BUT A JACKET LITERARLY AND NO COUCHES SLEEPING ON THE FLOOR AND NOW THE MOTHER IS WELL OFF THE HUSBAND HAS DECEASED BUT THE WIFE STILL LOVES HIM......IN MEMORY AND ALL ( FIGHT 4 IT FIGHT 4 LOVE OR U WILLL REGRET IT) .MAK.
You don't deserved this unless you have done something terribly wrong to him. Well, if you really think you are suffering, do what you think it is fit for your you. You always have a chance somewhere.
When trust is broken and you dont respect each other, then its better to end it up.
When you admit to yourself it is.
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