What are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to

I don't care if you people shouldn't wait, or if you believe you should wait because it's in the Bible or whatever.





I just want some reasons why emotionally it's not good. I think I heard that attachment to previous partners is a problem, but I don't remember it clearly.What are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to
Sex means more when you have it with someone that you loveWhat are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to
When you have sex too early, you are not allowing the relationship to grow emotionally. It brings a whole new dynamic to the relationship and once the cat is out of the bag (no pun intended), you can't go back to the way things were.


Also, when problems arise in a relationship, couples who are sexually active tend to use sex to repair the relationship, which is not healthy. When a problem arises, it needs to be discussed so that both people understand each others feelings and so that they try to prevent it from happening again.
Okay, from an emotional standpoint:





1. Any time you have sex with someone, there is the chance that the female sex partner could become pregnant. Condoms sometimes break and spermicide sometimes fails (not to mention being dangerous for the woman's health). If you are not emotionally ready for the possibility of children, you should not risk bringing children into this world, because putting them up for adoption can create a huge emotional toll for you and them down the road, and abortion is really just not very nice to the child.


2. If you have sex with someone, and the relationship later ends, it can have a huge emotional toll for both of you.


3. Some people even stay in bad relationships because the sex is good. Now this isn't very good for emotions, is it?





I'm not so much into the ';wait til marriage'; but you should be sure that the person you are having sex with is someone you are in love with...





And for the record, whoever brings up the Bible should realize that not everybody is Christian, so respect other people's beliefs, okay?
Well, if you never had sex and an orgasm until after marriage, when you marry and get them, it could be nature's way of emotionally binding people.





However, that being said, it often leads people to say in abusive situations despite their better judgment. It continues pattern of abuse and allows for no outlet. For example, my mother never had sex until she married dad. She made it her life purpose to stay with him no matter. So he was a head case and smoked three packs a day, drank three times a day, overworked, barked at us, screamed, had a short fuse and was banked,. Because mom stayed, he always thought he was right and continued this terrible behavior pattern towards not only us, his family, both mom and dad for forever once I entered therapy and they refused to treat me any differently depute my demands not to be barked at, talked down to, called names, lied top others about, etc.... So it has cost mom and dad a son because she was so bound to that marriage. Year later, I realize I had given myself the gift or serenity.





Another reason Io stay sexless until marriage is to not get herpes or AIDS.





That being said, your h or W who may NOT be celeb ate might give it to you having lied about their past.





The concept of being sexless until marriage is ONLY a religious based one, and has NO basis in reality tob many people, including me.
How old are you? It could screw up your sexual dominance if you're too young.





otherwise the Bible put it in there to keep babies from being born for no reason - haha. It's pretty common sense: if you have sex you (in some way) are attempting to baby make. Also disease.


People who deal with sexual urges best are those haven't been hurt by them. So don't put yourself in harms way!


If it's a love issue with you, love is what you make of it.
Several reasons:


1) relationship should be given emotional growth prior to sex


--trust needs to develop


2) You'll never be the same person again, and, chances are, if you had sex too early, you might change for the worst


3) Emergence of a baby/STD too early in life takes a toll on self-esteem, since you might think, ';I can't have sex anymore b/c I have an STD';
in my experience as with most others when you make love for the first time you never forget it and when it is over it is like grieving for a loved one who has died as, you cant get back that person and you can never get back what they have taken your virginity
It will damage your chestity-You will not find any emotional attraction to your partner--It will decrease your orgasm and physical as well as mental appetite.
STDs
One night stands weaken your self esteem