Wednesday, January 13, 2010

What should Muslim man in arranged marriage do?

What should a Muslim man in an arranged marriage do if his wife consistently fails to show love and affection but keeps claiming that she loves him?What should Muslim man in arranged marriage do?
Be patient with her. Hold her hand. Smile at her. Be gentle with her.





Be a man, not a beast.What should Muslim man in arranged marriage do?
It鈥檚 not necessary to divorce her. Women tend be diffident, naive and delicate. If she is feeling uncomfortable around her husband, I urge the husband to be patient and bond more with her psychologically. The husband should respect her decision to be inhibited.





Arranged marriages tend to be discomfited and awkward. Trust and faith is the key to a successful marriage. I think the husband should take his wife out to dinner, introduce her to his relatives, and take part in outdoor activities with her. I am sure the wife will gradually become more comfortable around her husband and will feel attracted towards him.
Ok I had an arranged marriage and loves come with time, trust me Im so happy I love my husband so much. I feel like I won the lottery. He is good looking has everything and u know Im like so excited when he even comes home.





arranged marriage is the best thing to do and it has a really low divorce rate.





and this is coming from a girl who was born and raised in america and my family is very modern.





its the best thing I have ever done and I just know that it comes with time.
MY ADVICE:





i think you should confront her and ask her (i know in the question you wrote ';... but keeps claiming that she loves him';), question her; in an appreciating manner.





and secondly, how long have you been in the relationship; if newly wedded couple, then perhaps the girl feels insecure right now. this should settle as time goes by.





if been husband and wife for long time; then you should ask her; this will make her feel bad and insecure but when she thinks about it then she WILL open up.





you see, some women prefer physical/sexual relationship whereas some dont.





AND SHE PROBABLY DOES LOVE YOU. SOME WOMEN JUST DONT LIKE SHOWING IT.
Hello,





Divorce, be a man about it, cut the umbilical cord from Mom and Dad and get on with life making his own way and living don't you think?


I appreciate old traditions and customs but as old Bob Dylan used to sing, ';The times thy are changing! ';





Cheers,





Michael Kelly
Don't be in an arranged marriage. I am chose who I fell in love with despite my parents knowing but they will know soon. And I'm staying with him!
They should be patiant and don't mention it. Anybody can love anybody but they are probably nervous of the whole marrige idea at their age.
Take it as a challenge and find ways into her heart.

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