Wednesday, January 13, 2010

When men are supposedly happy in marriage why do they continue to stare at other women?

Can it mean they are more likely to cheat ?When men are supposedly happy in marriage why do they continue to stare at other women?
They are happily married. It's eye candy. You can't help the reaction someone gives you. Eventually men remember their wife wives are standing next to them and snap out of it. Some learn not to do it around you out of respect. They are not dead...and neither am I.When men are supposedly happy in marriage why do they continue to stare at other women?
Just because your man checks out another women does not mean he is prone to cheat. It is in a mans nature to admire women. As women, we tend to check out men. We are just a little more subtle about it. If your confident in yourself, don't worry. Look at it like he is admiring a pretty picture. Just remember she is just a stranger walking by and your going home with him. I would only worry if he begins to act strange and treats you differently.
EVERY man notices attractive women just as EVERY woman notices attractive men!! doesn't mean that you are ';checking them out';.... that would be a choice! I never worry about my husband checking other chicks out! I know that I am all he sees and just because he notices another attractive woman DOES NOT mean he wants her! Loosen up hunny! It will be ok! God made men to be visually stimulated. A good example would be when he's watching TV. Have you ever been talking to your husband when he is watching tv and notice that he has not heard a word you have said???? it's because men are visually stimulated! doesn't mean he loves the tv more than you! it will be ok. Your insecurity will fade in time after you realize that it IS normal and he still loves you more than anyone else!
Puh-leeeeeeze. Even WOMEN stare at WOMEN! You mean to tell me that if a Pamela Anderson look alike with a giant rack wallked into the restaurant you wouldn't notice her? Or whisper to your girlfriend about how her shoes don't match her purse? You women are worse then men when it comes to checking each other out!
Hmmm... I think someone on here is jealous :)


Please don't be jealous. Men appreciate all of God's creations but I guess we tend to stare at some more then others :)


We have simple brains...we don't glance....we stare. We get hypnotized. Almost like a deer looking at head lights. Don't let it bother you but if he's staring all the time then just smack him on the back of the head. It'll snap him out of it!
Yeah...those men are jerks. I don't care who says what....that's just disrepectful.


But, more than likely he also did it when they were just dating so the wife shouldn't be so suprised. She just needs to make sure he's satisfied in his own back yard; so he doesn't go sneaking into someone elses.
Because it is 100% natural for a human being, including woman, to look at the opposite sex. Does not make one more likely to cheat just because they admire the beauty of someone of the opposite sex.
no.. not if u have an open line of communication.. my hubby looks every once in a while.. sometimes it's just to make a stupid comment about how trashy they look.. when he used to date that kind of girl.. or u'll hear the occasional wow her boobs are bigger then ur's.. lol.. mine arn't on the small side by any means.. and it used to bother me, but then we yalked.. it's ok to look.. but not flirt.. not touch.. none of that.. but all men will look.. even married women look some times at other men..
that's just in their nature.now if they don't stare then start worrying and start thinking that they could be gay.other than that don't worry and no that does not mean that they are likely to cheat.look at it this way do you refer him staring and not touching or not cheating
It means they are human. Just because you're married are you not suppose to notice the other people around you? Is everyone just all of a sudden suppose to become unattractive? No, let them look. It's when they start touching that you have a problem.
Admiration of other people or other things has nothing to do with being happy. Its human. I stare at men, women, children, cars, houses all sorts and i am more than happy with my husband, myself, my son, my car and my house.
I understand why men stare at me married or not. I am one who exudes confidence and its sexy. The cheating issue is a whole other level. Remember a married person make the decision to cheat.
Men will continue to stare at other women because the are human and they do admire nature since women are part of the nature.It does not necessary mean they will cheat.
Men stare at other women because that's what men are supposed to do. They love you and they're happy with you, but they will still look. It doesn't mean he's going to cheat on you
It doesn't mean that they are going to cheat its because were guys , and that's just on of those things you can count on. you know like death taxes and guys staring at women.
Do it back, be REALLY obvious, next time you see some drop dead gorgeous figure of a man, stare like theres no tomorrow... funnily enough his 'people watching' stopped soon after i started! lol!
The same reason we do. Don't you notice attractive men? Sure you do. Its the same thing. Women just glance and men stare...they aren't too good at hiding who they notice.
Marriage doesn't put blinders on a person. Looking doesn't = cheating!
Trust me sweetheart, he means no dis-respect, it's just that women are God's decoration to the world.
Its because they are human, most men can admire beauty without lust.
i dont know, i wonder the same thing. I catch my husband sometimes, but hes getting better. Its a natural reaction to look at eye candy.
I don't know...but when I go to the Super Buffet, I'm happy with what's on my plate. But I sure look at other people's plate and say, ';That looks good!';
Men like to look, it's just part of their brain. It's not a big deal, they are just enjoying the scenery!
Maybe you women should cover up instead of letting your boobs hang out.
Men are never happy in marriage
They are probably just not doing it right (unobviously)...all men look, so do women.
we are visual creatures...





we are on the look out for two things, danger and sex...





just cos we look, doesn't mean we'll act... stop being so paranoid!!!
They are married, sweetheart, they are not blind.
They're married, not dead.
when i stop looking....shoot me.....
no its just old habbits

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