Which marriage do you think is stronger?

Marriage A:





Frequent fighting. Husband has attacked wife numerous times while intoxicated, requiring medical attention.





However, husband and wife spend a lot of time together and can be very loving toward each other.





Marriage B:





Very little fighting, just chronic, low-grade hostility. Rarely talk about important things, or anything at all. Appear to hate each other.





Rarely spend time together.Which marriage do you think is stronger?
how can you even compare the 2? Both are CRAP for everybody involved. AND both are just as abusive. One physically and one more mentally. Clearly the first one is NOT love. You do not ABUSE someone you love. And the second one, is just a waste of their lives.Which marriage do you think is stronger?
I think marriage B would last longer because there's not enough passion in either a good or a bad way for them to realize that thats a terrible way to lie a life and get out and move on.





I think a lot of people are stuck in this situation and it just makes me think what a waste of life! I think people stuck in this kind of marriage dont have much about them and probably deserve all the misery they get.





neither marriage A or B would be a good one, but at least marriage A would be more likely to be over sooner so both parties could move on with their lives.
Marriage A: Likely scenario in one of his drunken rages he kills his spouse and goes to jail.


Marriage B: Likely scenario the hostility will develop into a full blown war that will leave all people associated with the couple wounded, and not getting over what the other one has done ';wrong';





Neither marriage is stronger, they would be stronger people if they left their marriages and tried to make their lives better.
Neither. Marriage A is on the slippery slope to severe physical injury and substantial legal problems. Marriage B won't last as they aren't connected and will eventually have an affair or end in divorce.
neither....


your ultimate goal in marriage is to make your spouse happy,priority, and happy!
I don't think there's strength in either one just a dysfunctional dependence on each other. I'll take single and/or divorced and even lonely over being beaten to a pulp or having someone f*cking with my wits.
i think that marriage a is stronger because he beat her when he was intoxicated, and he really couldn't his actions. plus, they spend a lot of time together. although, they both should be worked out.
Neither one is healthy.. Id like a balance, with a little chaos but we can work thru it, while seeing each other, then giving space....
They both stink. But I would say marriage A smells a little stronger...after all he is actually putting his hands on her.


But both are unhealthy and life threatening.
Either one is a death sentence. You'd have to have mental issues to allow yourself to be in either situation.
Marriage C
Neither, although I would say Marriage B is safer.
B seems like a typical marriage. So I would say the second one.
That's like saying which feels better, a knife or a gunshot wound.
this is diffidently a BI polar TRI ...marraige!
Both sound like they suck.
In both marriage..... the end result is one killing the other.
Neither of them.
neither..........they all need counseling
The Richer pair.
I'll go for B