Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?

I'm curious. You don't see that much people around waiting until marriage to have sex anymore. Especially men! Most people wait because of their religion... Who waits because its their personal choice? And if you waited till you were married... Was it worth it?Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?
It is rare, but me and my husband waited. I can not stress how wonderful it was and how I do not regret it at all! While we dated, we were able to get to know each other spiritually, emotionally, etc. and not be ';clouded'; by our physical intimacy. Of course it was hard and frustrated at times, but it made us appreciate our sex life now that much more. It has made our marriage and bond that much more strong because we do have that physical connection now. Waiting made me view marriage as a freeing, exciting commitment unlike the ball and chain some people refer it to. I am glad neither of us have anybody to compare each other to and all the baggage that comes with numerous sexual partners.





And our first time wasn't awkward at all, it was the most exhilarating, intimate moments of my life. We educated ourselves very well before we got married.Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?
I am 20 years old in a serious relationship and I am still a virgin. I am waiting for mostly religious reasons but also somewhat of personal reasons. I just think that sex is very intimate and shouldnt be done with random people you barely know. I just don't want to be stuck with a guy who only likes me because of the sex and cheats on me when I don't give it to him. Am I wrong to think that most people get divorced when their sex life gets in a rut because otherwise they have no other kind of love for each other? Personally, that is how I can tell if a guy really likes me. When I tell him I am a virgin waiting for marriage and he says its no problem then I know he's worth my time. If the guy runs away because he's getting no sex then obviously it's not someone worth being with.





Also, statistically, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. However, only 12% of that 50% are people who were virgins when they married. Hope this helps
my mans ex wife was a Virgin she didn't now what a bj was he had to get porn to teach her he said it was the most worst experience for him and she cheated on him 4 times during there marriage he is with me for 3 years and we have fun fun grate sex and he said im sure worth it !!!!! he has ben divorced for 10 years ive ben divorced 8 Years we are so good together we have a good strong relationship!!!!!!!!!
There is really no reason to wait to have sex. Birth control is easy to obtain and use. I am not married and I have sex, I think it is the way it should be. There are more reasons to have sex before marriage then not to.
I am glad I didn't wait. I would have missed out on mind blowing sex, and could have been a 40 year old virgin. By the way, if I waited, I would have waited for a man I ended up divorcing because he turned out to be the biggest jerk.
Go on and get laid, but dont fall in love!!
open up lol
Hell no,i am definitely not a virgin.I didn't wait

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