What do guys really want in marriage?

I have been married for about 3 years and things have been a little bumpy but i really want to make him happy. Got any advice or ideas?What do guys really want in marriage?
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Men are more complicated than we are usually given credit for. Of course we want sex. Exciting and interesting (don't let it become routine). We want companionship and friendship too. We want to feel needed and important. We want to feel like we are the greatest guy (yes, our egos need attention). We don't want to be belittled. We don't want to be always nagged on what to wear, what to say etc. Let us keep our dignity intact, let us feel like it's the best sex going (but it's OK to make suggestions to make us better), let us feel like we have your respect and care.
Men want affection and appreciation. Women want security and affection.
Inspiration !
That is easy. Men want affection.
They want to have the freedom to play video games and hang out with their guy friends. And some beer. Oh, and lots of sex. That's about it.
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ahmed


from egypt


24 and you
Sex on tap, dinner on the table, beer in the fridge, 8 hours of sleep a night, a clean house, and oreos.
They want everything. Meaning, a woman who can cook, have sex, clean, and still provide all his needs. And sadly to say that sometimes all of that is not enough. He may never be 100% satisfied but neither will you. But what I just mentioned will keep him happy and coming back for more!!!! Those words of advice is coming from a 32 year old mother of a 7 month old. My husband thanks me so often for cooking more than anything. I cook everyday except Fridays and Saturdays. Plus after I had our 7 month old, he is getting more sex than usual. Honey, he is on cloud nine!!!!! Happy! Keep your man satisifed and it doesn't hurt to ask him what he want?
Don't nag him all the time. Be respectful even when you don't want to be. Don't be frigid. Don't expect him to understand your feelings. Oral sex. And if you feel like he wants you to leave him alone, go with that feeling.
In order of importance:


1. s*x


2. more of #1


3. a comfortable warm family household, where no one complains or nitpicks, and people can relax


4. a friend who they like and trust and will do things with them


5. someone to eat dinner with


6. someone to discuss things with, like what car to buy and career moves, etc.


7. someone who loves them





i think that about does it. my wife does 3, 5, and 6.



They just want to know that no matter what they do that you will be there because he bought you a ring.





At least that's why I think my husband got into this.





Plus laundry and cooking.
Um, Love, Trust, respect, and sex I think. In an order of their choice.
You can't make someone else happy -- happiness comes from within.





However, if you aren't sure of your separate roles in the marriage, and if you want to define them better, talk with your husband and let him know how you feel. This discussion should have taken place before you got married, but i suppose it's never too late.





Take care.



I've heard on here.. and i have to agree....





'; A chef in the kitchen and a whore in the sack'; : )
sex
Respect, to feel appreciated and have his ego stroked every now and then. Compliment him, and have a good sex life. My husband lights up at the smallest compliments I give him that make him feel manly. I make sure I tell him how much I appreciate the husband and father he is. I also tell him how sexy he is, and how I love that he always smells good and it turns me on. Little things like that go a long way. Oh yeah, and good sex.
Make you both happy..........google relationship skills!