What do girls think about a guy who is saving his virginity for marriage? ?

Cause i am but people tell me that girls think its uncool and stupid...what do you girls think about a guy saving his virginity for marriage?What do girls think about a guy who is saving his virginity for marriage? ?
i think it's awesome.


i'm doing the same thing, and believe it or not, there are definitely girls out there that are saving themselves too. its really good that you can avoid temptation and it shows that you have really strong morals. What do girls think about a guy who is saving his virginity for marriage? ?
Wow, Col, it looks like the girls really dig it!

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well most of them in India are virgins by the time they get married

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its all personal preference. i currently have a boyfriend and he want's to save sex for marriage and i completly respect that 100%. Many girls who are slutty and just want to have a good time won't respect that, but in your case, that wouldnt be the type of girl that you would deserve. so its all in finding the right girl who will respect your thoughts.
i think it's cool. Actually, I think it's cool either way - saving it and not saving it- but I have a little more awe for guys who are going to save his for marriage since so many guys seem to want to be rid of it. And don't listen to people telling you it's stupid. They have no respect for your beliefs and principles. And you should find a girl who will be able to respect the fact that you're saving it.
In my opinion, it's a fantastic idea. Not many guys nowadays are willing to wait until marriage. If I had a boyfriend who is saving his virginity for marriage, I'd be really happy. Yes, some girls may think it's uncool, and stupid but that's because it's all they think about. It's a good idea. You shouldn't change your mind about it. (:





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If that is what you want to do, then that's awesome. My boyfriend and I are saving ourselves for marriage, and I really appreciate that he respects himself enough, and respects me enough, to wait until we are married.
its personally up to each indiviual and their morals.





but i am the same way...im waiting for marriage to loose my virginity and im hoping that if one day i marry someone, that they are a virgin too.
I always have a lot of respect for these people. It shows that the guy has a lot of dedication to the right one. So, it's a great thing.
I think it shows an amazing amount of self-respect, and the right girl will see that, and then she'll know that you can respect her too.


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Wow... a guy that actually respects his body. I think a guy like you is very strong willed and isn't effected by peer pressure. Good for you!
I think its cool that someone would do that for their future wife/husband. It shows that they are responsible. I'm doin the same thing so ur not the only one!
I think its entirely up to the person, ignore what other people say and stick to your beliefs!



Do what you want, if the girl thinks its weird, shes not the girl for you.





good luck
I think it shows you have a lot of values. Your future wife is lucky to have a husband like you!


Good luck!
I think it shows a girl that you can be very committed to your


beliefs and values. Good for you!
depends on the girl really. i personally don't think its a big deal, but its a good choice
HOTTT
a man with respect and patience
i think its hot....i like a responsibly guy...im going the same thing
Though I am not a girl, I have to advise against you doing this. You want to be good in bed for your eventual wife, and you have to be comfortable with your sexuality. Embrace it - don't fear it.
Well I can tell you from a guys point of view. Why bother? The chances of you finding a virgin to marry in the US are pretty slim.
May do well if she is Amish!


d;o)

How many states have legalized gay marriage?

Is it 4 cuz i keep hering that but i also here its 2..idk what it is...


im doing an essy on it so It u have websites to go with that would be great!





~ThanksHow many states have legalized gay marriage?
Five states (Massachusetts, California, Connecticut, Iowa, %26amp; Vermont) have legalized same-sex marriage, but one of those five (California) has unlegalized the recognition of same-sex marriage that it once recognized.How many states have legalized gay marriage?
Right now only 4 have legalized it; Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont, and Iowa.





A bill has passed through the House and Senate in New Hampshire but still has to be signed into law by the governor. A bill has passed through the Senate in Maine, but still has to get through the House and governor.





Same sex marriage was legalized by a Supreme Court ruling in CA, but that ruling was overturned by Proposition 8. It is again awaiting another Supreme Court ruling. Anytime now.
I only know of Massachusetts having legal gay marriage, But here in Washinton, a bill was passed called the ''Everything but Marriage'' and it allows same sex domestic partners the same rights and stuff as married couples.
Vermont, Connecticut, Iowa, and Massachusetts





California did, but it was re-banned





New Hampshire and Maine might legalize it
1 just california

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What do guys really want in marriage?

I have been married for about 3 years and things have been a little bumpy but i really want to make him happy. Got any advice or ideas?What do guys really want in marriage?
Minimum griefWhat do guys really want in marriage?
Men are more complicated than we are usually given credit for. Of course we want sex. Exciting and interesting (don't let it become routine). We want companionship and friendship too. We want to feel needed and important. We want to feel like we are the greatest guy (yes, our egos need attention). We don't want to be belittled. We don't want to be always nagged on what to wear, what to say etc. Let us keep our dignity intact, let us feel like it's the best sex going (but it's OK to make suggestions to make us better), let us feel like we have your respect and care.
Men want affection and appreciation. Women want security and affection.
Inspiration !
That is easy. Men want affection.
They want to have the freedom to play video games and hang out with their guy friends. And some beer. Oh, and lots of sex. That's about it.
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Sex on tap, dinner on the table, beer in the fridge, 8 hours of sleep a night, a clean house, and oreos.
They want everything. Meaning, a woman who can cook, have sex, clean, and still provide all his needs. And sadly to say that sometimes all of that is not enough. He may never be 100% satisfied but neither will you. But what I just mentioned will keep him happy and coming back for more!!!! Those words of advice is coming from a 32 year old mother of a 7 month old. My husband thanks me so often for cooking more than anything. I cook everyday except Fridays and Saturdays. Plus after I had our 7 month old, he is getting more sex than usual. Honey, he is on cloud nine!!!!! Happy! Keep your man satisifed and it doesn't hurt to ask him what he want?
Don't nag him all the time. Be respectful even when you don't want to be. Don't be frigid. Don't expect him to understand your feelings. Oral sex. And if you feel like he wants you to leave him alone, go with that feeling.
In order of importance:


1. s*x


2. more of #1


3. a comfortable warm family household, where no one complains or nitpicks, and people can relax


4. a friend who they like and trust and will do things with them


5. someone to eat dinner with


6. someone to discuss things with, like what car to buy and career moves, etc.


7. someone who loves them





i think that about does it. my wife does 3, 5, and 6.



They just want to know that no matter what they do that you will be there because he bought you a ring.





At least that's why I think my husband got into this.





Plus laundry and cooking.
Um, Love, Trust, respect, and sex I think. In an order of their choice.
You can't make someone else happy -- happiness comes from within.





However, if you aren't sure of your separate roles in the marriage, and if you want to define them better, talk with your husband and let him know how you feel. This discussion should have taken place before you got married, but i suppose it's never too late.





Take care.



I've heard on here.. and i have to agree....





'; A chef in the kitchen and a whore in the sack'; : )
sex
Respect, to feel appreciated and have his ego stroked every now and then. Compliment him, and have a good sex life. My husband lights up at the smallest compliments I give him that make him feel manly. I make sure I tell him how much I appreciate the husband and father he is. I also tell him how sexy he is, and how I love that he always smells good and it turns me on. Little things like that go a long way. Oh yeah, and good sex.
Make you both happy..........google relationship skills!

Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?

I'm curious. You don't see that much people around waiting until marriage to have sex anymore. Especially men! Most people wait because of their religion... Who waits because its their personal choice? And if you waited till you were married... Was it worth it?Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?
It is rare, but me and my husband waited. I can not stress how wonderful it was and how I do not regret it at all! While we dated, we were able to get to know each other spiritually, emotionally, etc. and not be ';clouded'; by our physical intimacy. Of course it was hard and frustrated at times, but it made us appreciate our sex life now that much more. It has made our marriage and bond that much more strong because we do have that physical connection now. Waiting made me view marriage as a freeing, exciting commitment unlike the ball and chain some people refer it to. I am glad neither of us have anybody to compare each other to and all the baggage that comes with numerous sexual partners.





And our first time wasn't awkward at all, it was the most exhilarating, intimate moments of my life. We educated ourselves very well before we got married.Is there still people waiting until marriage out there?
I am 20 years old in a serious relationship and I am still a virgin. I am waiting for mostly religious reasons but also somewhat of personal reasons. I just think that sex is very intimate and shouldnt be done with random people you barely know. I just don't want to be stuck with a guy who only likes me because of the sex and cheats on me when I don't give it to him. Am I wrong to think that most people get divorced when their sex life gets in a rut because otherwise they have no other kind of love for each other? Personally, that is how I can tell if a guy really likes me. When I tell him I am a virgin waiting for marriage and he says its no problem then I know he's worth my time. If the guy runs away because he's getting no sex then obviously it's not someone worth being with.





Also, statistically, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. However, only 12% of that 50% are people who were virgins when they married. Hope this helps
my mans ex wife was a Virgin she didn't now what a bj was he had to get porn to teach her he said it was the most worst experience for him and she cheated on him 4 times during there marriage he is with me for 3 years and we have fun fun grate sex and he said im sure worth it !!!!! he has ben divorced for 10 years ive ben divorced 8 Years we are so good together we have a good strong relationship!!!!!!!!!
There is really no reason to wait to have sex. Birth control is easy to obtain and use. I am not married and I have sex, I think it is the way it should be. There are more reasons to have sex before marriage then not to.
I am glad I didn't wait. I would have missed out on mind blowing sex, and could have been a 40 year old virgin. By the way, if I waited, I would have waited for a man I ended up divorcing because he turned out to be the biggest jerk.
Go on and get laid, but dont fall in love!!
open up lol
Hell no,i am definitely not a virgin.I didn't wait

How will Arnold handle the Gay marriage issue in California? Will he go along or try to stop it?

Schwarzenegger reiterated his opposition Thursday to a constitutional amendment that would overrule the court's decision.How will Arnold handle the Gay marriage issue in California? Will he go along or try to stop it?
What do you call it when 4 people over turn the will of the people with out and checks or balance?





This issue is going to be a dark times for the gay community if this is forced in by the courts.





Just like abortion and we still dealing with that nightmare of Roe v Wade.





Those who are forcing this issue have thought it through and wondering why they can't sell this to the public.





WI has civil unions and they are fine with that.





Maybe the better way to handle this is have homosexuals make a clam apporach about the issue.





Please remember the 04 election where this was on the ballot and lost time after time.





Do you really want more of those people to come out of the woodwork to vote against it.





It will cost Obama the election if this keeps being pushed on the American public.





So you have to ask yourself is it worth it?





Or maybe better to work toward civil unions and leave marriage a private matter and get the state out slowly?How will Arnold handle the Gay marriage issue in California? Will he go along or try to stop it?
Arnold is a conservative, old style, hes said he won't challenge it, and that should come as no surprise since conservative believe in smaller government, not more of it.


And by intruding into private lives it will intrude.


Not all laws are right under existing laws. That's why the judges ruled the way they did.


Its a matter of human rights.


Despite much bitterness, gays are human and deserve their share of rights too, like that of inheritance, and being next of kin in an emergency situation, and not being at the mercy of parents who may have dislike their child's sexual orientation.


The only people who should really be against this is gay couples where one of them wants to marry and the other doesn't.


See how much like straights they really are?


For the rest of us, it won't make a pins worth of difference.
i really, REALLY hope this isnt your and other people's main worry. wouldnt you say theres much more to worry about, instead of worrying about whos marrying who and sticking your nose in other people's business?





who cares if Arnold does nothing about it! i certailny dont, and im straight. i worry about something that is actually going to affect me that IS my business.





sorry for sounding rude. anyway, i am in California, and that is my honest opinion.
If we are going to let a few people make the rules, then lets stop calling ourselves a damn democracy.
Hopefully he will be the leader in trying to stop it.
He has publically stated that he will not challenge it

Ken Starr says Prop 8 is a return to the original definition of marriage in California?

Does that mean Starr believes interracial marriage should be outlawed as well?Ken Starr says Prop 8 is a return to the original definition of marriage in California?
Sometimes politicians speak before they think.*Ken Starr says Prop 8 is a return to the original definition of marriage in California?
How can Ken Starr say that this is a return to the original standards. In the US Constitution, it states that everyone is entitled to the God-given rights of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. How can this law be constitutional when such people are denying people of this right?





Although our founding fathers said that the will of the majority overruled the minority, they also said that it isn't right when the will of the majority is an injustice to the minority.





As far as interracial marriage, California led the fight in this effort.





Starr is crazy!
Who knows what goes on in that mans head. He needs to butt out of other peoples personal lives and let them be how they wish.





But to answer your question, I dont think he intended it to be interpreted that way. That would be crossing yet another line, one that i thought we had already erassed (legally, at least).
I'm not quite familiar with Prop 8 I remember it had something to do with same sex marriage, but as for Ken Starr, you're jumping to conclusions to think you can know what he meant. All you can do is take what he said at the face of it.
Not to worry....








I don't care what starr thinks.....














the gay marriage thing will keep going back and fourth for a while ....








but eventually gays will be able to marry just like the rest of us.....














everything take time......











the civil rights movement took time.......











womens liberation took time.......











when you look back at history , theres always a pattern......








but in due time, we will all have equal rights......

















not to worry , my friend : )
No, the original definition of marriage does not mention race and you know it. It is obvious that the Supreme Court of California is not buying this effort to overturn the will of the voters.
The actual definition of marriage is a union


of two people... there is no mention of race


or gender involved.
';Separate but Equal'; -- the modern day Plessy v. Ferguson





Instead of race it's sexual preference.
marriage was never defined until people decided they didn't want gays to partake.
Some people want to go backwards and others want to go forwards...
An unintended consequence, I'm sure.
sounds right

What are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to

I don't care if you people shouldn't wait, or if you believe you should wait because it's in the Bible or whatever.





I just want some reasons why emotionally it's not good. I think I heard that attachment to previous partners is a problem, but I don't remember it clearly.What are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to
Sex means more when you have it with someone that you loveWhat are some reasons why it's best to not have sex til marriage or at least w/ someone you're committed to
When you have sex too early, you are not allowing the relationship to grow emotionally. It brings a whole new dynamic to the relationship and once the cat is out of the bag (no pun intended), you can't go back to the way things were.


Also, when problems arise in a relationship, couples who are sexually active tend to use sex to repair the relationship, which is not healthy. When a problem arises, it needs to be discussed so that both people understand each others feelings and so that they try to prevent it from happening again.
Okay, from an emotional standpoint:





1. Any time you have sex with someone, there is the chance that the female sex partner could become pregnant. Condoms sometimes break and spermicide sometimes fails (not to mention being dangerous for the woman's health). If you are not emotionally ready for the possibility of children, you should not risk bringing children into this world, because putting them up for adoption can create a huge emotional toll for you and them down the road, and abortion is really just not very nice to the child.


2. If you have sex with someone, and the relationship later ends, it can have a huge emotional toll for both of you.


3. Some people even stay in bad relationships because the sex is good. Now this isn't very good for emotions, is it?





I'm not so much into the ';wait til marriage'; but you should be sure that the person you are having sex with is someone you are in love with...





And for the record, whoever brings up the Bible should realize that not everybody is Christian, so respect other people's beliefs, okay?
Well, if you never had sex and an orgasm until after marriage, when you marry and get them, it could be nature's way of emotionally binding people.





However, that being said, it often leads people to say in abusive situations despite their better judgment. It continues pattern of abuse and allows for no outlet. For example, my mother never had sex until she married dad. She made it her life purpose to stay with him no matter. So he was a head case and smoked three packs a day, drank three times a day, overworked, barked at us, screamed, had a short fuse and was banked,. Because mom stayed, he always thought he was right and continued this terrible behavior pattern towards not only us, his family, both mom and dad for forever once I entered therapy and they refused to treat me any differently depute my demands not to be barked at, talked down to, called names, lied top others about, etc.... So it has cost mom and dad a son because she was so bound to that marriage. Year later, I realize I had given myself the gift or serenity.





Another reason Io stay sexless until marriage is to not get herpes or AIDS.





That being said, your h or W who may NOT be celeb ate might give it to you having lied about their past.





The concept of being sexless until marriage is ONLY a religious based one, and has NO basis in reality tob many people, including me.
How old are you? It could screw up your sexual dominance if you're too young.





otherwise the Bible put it in there to keep babies from being born for no reason - haha. It's pretty common sense: if you have sex you (in some way) are attempting to baby make. Also disease.


People who deal with sexual urges best are those haven't been hurt by them. So don't put yourself in harms way!


If it's a love issue with you, love is what you make of it.
Several reasons:


1) relationship should be given emotional growth prior to sex


--trust needs to develop


2) You'll never be the same person again, and, chances are, if you had sex too early, you might change for the worst


3) Emergence of a baby/STD too early in life takes a toll on self-esteem, since you might think, ';I can't have sex anymore b/c I have an STD';
in my experience as with most others when you make love for the first time you never forget it and when it is over it is like grieving for a loved one who has died as, you cant get back that person and you can never get back what they have taken your virginity
It will damage your chestity-You will not find any emotional attraction to your partner--It will decrease your orgasm and physical as well as mental appetite.
STDs
One night stands weaken your self esteem