What are great ideas to spice up a your marriage?

i want to spice up my love life with my husband, but it is also kind of hard considering i have no idea what to do. i don't have a lot of money to go out and buy sexy lingerie, but i do want to know how to make things sexier?What are great ideas to spice up a your marriage?
I just had to make a comment--if the second person who answered thinks that's the way to make it spicier, what if we do all of that every single day and we want things to be amazing? I consider all of the things she wrote to be normal marriage things.What are great ideas to spice up a your marriage?
go out and do something together. My husband and I just started doing this, and it has made us a lot happier together. Just go to the video store, or somewhere for some light shopping.


Also hugging and kissing (and meaning it) makes a huge difference!


If you can get a blindfold that is nice to have during sex.
As a man I can tell you, you don't need Victorias Secret to turn your man on......take a scissors to a tight pair of old jeans and t-shirt, or PAINT yourself up with chocolate sause %26amp; whipped cream. Ask hubby what he wants and if you're into it to....go for it!! Just don't let your mind get in the way of your sexual pleasure........thinking to long about certain things will make them into a turn off when in actually you may enjoy the hell out of it....in theory oral sex is nasty, but I'll bet you do it anyway....lol
there was a comedy scene on blue collar tv the guy said men are happy if they are fed and have a beer and can see someone naked.you don't need alot of things to spice it up but being naked is where you start serve him dinner naked maybe where a apron one night meet him at the door after work at the door naked tell him his wish is your command bow down and smile devilishly have a bath ready .or have a trail of notes starting at the front door with instructions to the next spot like first note remove your close and go to the table for more instructions then have a drink and a not like put blindfold on and wait .then lead him to the room either a bath if he works hard and keep the blind fold on him and bath him have a little snack to feed him so he wont be hungry finger food he will enjoy being feed and wont be hungry for anything but you then do what ever comes next have fun and its something that's not going to cost any extra money do these things on a certain day of the week or be spontaneous OR find out if he would like to play around with spankings and tieing you or him up spankings are great yes they hurt but they are exciting to open your mind and talk to him after you do the naked thing about things hes wondering about just dont bring others into your bedroom that for you two and well i flunked sharing i want it all for myself like i said have fun
do it all over the house. maybe when you are outside walking slip over into woods and do it. do wild and crazy things. be spontaneous. at restaurants both of you let your hands wander under the table. basically i am saying be naughty.
Why? Do you afraid that your man will abandon you if you do not try this stuff? Go to the nearest library and borrow a book called ';The joy of sex';. You will find many good tips with pictures.
have good sex
Greet him every morning with a kiss. Have coffee/breakfast and dinner together. Cook together. Call each other every day just to say ';I miss you';. Give him backrubs.
I completely understand! :)


Some morning when I know my husband is in for a hard day at work I wake him.... well the good way haha. He LOVES it and makes his day start off good ;)


Sometimes as soon as he gets off work I greet him at the door, take everything out of his hands.... and ya know ha ha


You can also make a great meal, sit down together, talk about your day and have ';dessert'; :)





Just be creative... It'll get easier to think of things and it will be fun thinking of them :)