WWhy would a man have child outside his marriage and then not be a father?

My friend has son by her ex boyfriend. She reunited with her ex after 1year and half got pregnant (TOLD HER NOT GET AN ABORTION). Half way in her pregnancy he told her he was married. And he married a girl he met after they broke up. This is his first child which means he doesnt have a child by his wife. He finally told his wife and family. His son is 9 months and he never met his son or dont care of him.WWhy would a man have child outside his marriage and then not be a father?
I know in my son's case, his father is too immature (at 29) to man up and face his responsibility. He'd rather stay high/drunk 24/7 then even pick up the phone to say ';when was he born, how much did he weigh, how is he doing now, etc';





It ticks me off, but I know in the long run, its HIM who is missing out on the first smiles, cooing, and hanging on to a rattle now, much less what is to come!WWhy would a man have child outside his marriage and then not be a father?
Sounds like a winner....ugh.
It sounds like your friend made a bad judgement call on his character. She needs to go after him for child support, but never expect it. She'll be a great mother to her son. He'll be fine. It's much better to have one stable parent than to have two unstable parents.
One word: SCUMBAG.
That's a shame but it happens.





You don't have to be a mature, strong, moral, or trustworthy man to have sex, and because of that, immature, weak, immoral, untrustworthy men father children, and then dump them on the mom and go on with their lives.