How to come out of my marriage experiences ?

I got married to a guy. We are separated now. It's been one year. We had no talks as of now. My married life experiences are haunting me. I feel worried and alone. I'm feeling scared to go for a second marriage.


Do you think second marriages really work ? I've no belief that my husband will come back to me. Even If he wants to lead a life, I can't because we really had a bad experience together before I left him. How to free off my mind ?How to come out of my marriage experiences ?
1. Yes, second marriages work great.


2. Time will heal your mind, body %26amp; soul.


3. Don't be in a hurry to marry again. Enjoy life!How to come out of my marriage experiences ?
My mom's second marriage to my father didn't work, and she has been single for 8 years since their divorce. I don't want to kick you when you're down, i'm just telling you my experience on the subject.





Just because their marriage didn't work, doesn't mean a second marriage for you won't. My grandpa married for the second time in his 50's, and they have been happily married going on 20-30 years. It just depends i guess.





If the bad experience with your husband before you left him involves abuse, stay far away. Your marriage failed for a reason, and i am sure there is someone out there who could make you much happier. Don't give up hope.
You can go ahead for second marriage.But before that you have to do the following.


1.Try to correct yourself which went to wrong in your first mar.life


2.With whom u r planing for second life discuss your life's expectations,likes and dislikes etc..etc..


3.Also get his thoughts and expectation about the life.It seams to be business but life is also like business some times.


Once both of u got the life's plan and expectations then there will be no any big disappointment in future. Take care to decide your new life and make it success.Best of luck.
Whose fault was it?


If it was yours, accept your guilt and decide to be a better person and do better in the next relationship.


if it was his, you chose wrong. You need to take more time next time before getting married. Really know him .


if it was both of you, then it's a little of both above. You need to mature, decide what you really want and choice better next time.





Everything CAN BE a learning experience. Decide what yours is of this marraige and move on.
Slow down!!! You just got out of one bad marriage and are you even divorced yet?


Second marriages work and so do first if both parties work at it.


Calm down you don't need a man that bad do you? wait a minute!!!
Engage in real activities in life.





A second relationship should be very carefully selected.
time is a biggest medcines
yes.....u can get married 2nd time, but it is not the right time to do.


you need some time to reciver from the past bad experience. try to work on your 1st marrage, if that is not possible leave him alone some time.





1,don't think about ur bab try to think positively.


2, enjoy ur bachuler life once again. catch up with your old friends,college friends, school friends, hav fuu %26amp; enjoy.


3, join some dance class.dance make u happy. there u will be like a free bird


4, its a right time restart your old hobbies like painting, singing, etc.....


5, change you place. i mean go to some new placess(tour) for some weeks. there u will met new people, new weather, u will feel fresh.


6, spend your weekends with childrens like playing cricket with them or playing some other games with children is a great experience.there once again u can feel ur childhood moments.


7, if you r working no problem. if not get a job. there you find new friends, new atmospher......will make u to forget ur past.


8. participate in social activities. do some social work. u will get some haapines. happiness is in giving more that in taking.





what i mean to say is, once again you have got a chance to lead a life like bachulore (for some a period ) hav fun enjoy.





but, DON'T GET INTO ANF KIND OF COMMITMENT/RELATION SHIP so soon. take your own time .